Two-Year-Olds Discussions
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DiscussionShould I correct the way my son holds his crayon?
At two years of age, children do not have the muscle control or coordination to hold their crayons using the correct, “three-finger” grip. Instead, you will find that your son using either a “fisted grasp” (when the crayon is held in a closed fist and the whole arm moves from the shoulder) or a “palmar grasp” (when the crayon is held i...
Reading & Writing
My child is in speech therapy but it's not helping. What do I do next?
After filling out all the paperwork and finding a specialist to help your child with a challenge, it can be very frustrating when you do not see progress. Keep in mind that there may be small steps, rather than big, noticeable breakthroughs. Speak with your child's speech therapist to express your concerns. Find out what reasonable goa...
Reading & Writing
What are some of your favorite Valentine's Day books?
Valentine’s Day is all about love, and it is a great opportunity to talk to your toddler about the many ways in which you can show love, and of course, how much your love them! Hugs and kisses are a great way to express love, making these three books perfect for Valentine’s Day: “Hug” by Jez Alborough, “Hug Time” by Patrick McDonnell, ...
How can I make goodbyes easier on my son?
EEven though your son might be the one in tears, saying goodbye is often harder on you than your child! One way to make goodbyes easier is to make sure your son is busy with an activity that he enjoys before you have to leave. When it is time for you to go, keep your goodbye short and sweet with a few reassuring words and a cheerful wa...
Personal & Social Skills
My two-year-old only wants to eat yogurt all day. How can I encourage her to eat other things without inciting a tantrum?
Doctors and nutritionists often advise parents to think about getting complete nutrients over the course of the day, rather than at each meal. Yogurt is at least a healthy choice and a good place to start! What do you think your child likes about yogurt? If it's the taste, perhaps introduce fruits that match her favorite flavors. If it...
Personal & Social Skills
What children's books would you recommend for two-year-olds?
There are so many wonderful books to introduce your child to the joy of reading. One of my personal favorites is “Not a Box” by Antoinette Portis, which tells a story of a very imaginative bunny and his box, a box that can be become anything that he wants it to be! Young children also love “The Very Busy Spider” and “Head to Toe” by Er...
Reading & Writing
What are some ways to help my child write a family story?
A fun way to create a family story with younger children is to make a family tree. You can add photos or ask your child to draw a picture of each family member. Talk about each family member and share special memories you have shared together. Another fun way to create your family story is to make a scrapbook that highlights some of th...
Reading & Writing
My toddler likes to be carried. How can I help her be active?
It can be difficult when your daughter wants to be carried around all the time, after all, there is only so much you can do with one free hand! Encourage your daughter to be independent by praising her when she does walk on her own. If your daughter wants to be carried, give her the choice to walk while holding your hand or ride in the...
Personal & Social Skills
When do kids really learn to count?
As with reading and talking, parents can introduce mathematical thinking from the start. Counting everyday objects (stairs, blocks, snacks) is a fun beginning. Some toddlers may even repeat a few numbers or memorize a sequence of numbers, though this is usually by rote, rather than a true understanding of numbers or counting. This is t...
Mathematics
How do I teach my child to spit in the sink after brushing?
Children are natural imitators. In order for your child to learn how to brush properly, it helps for parents or siblings to act as role models. Try brushing your teeth alongside your little one, or enlisting the help of your older children, to demonstrate the proper order of brushing, rinsing, and spitting. The spitting part may not co...
Personal & Social Skills
What are some fun outdoor toys for 2-year-olds?
Now it’s summer, it's great to get children outdoors to play. No matter what your child is interested in, there are lots of fun toys to get your child outside and having fun! If you have a little artist, try sidewalk chalk, or give your child a paintbrush and water to paint rocks (Melissa and Doug’s Jumbo Paintbrushes are easy for todd...
Personal & Social Skills
How important are play dates for toddlers?
Play dates provide children with opportunities to practice important social and emotional skills. Children learn to share, take turns, and cooperate as they interact with each other. Play dates are also a great place for children to practice manners and learn how to communicate with one another. At this age, it is usually best to keep ...
Personal & Social Skills